HELP! My child hates to read!
Many children really do not like reading. Why? Often it stems from missing some basic reading skills. Many children who struggle with reading resist any opportunity to read, not even reading signs or labels. They fear they will get the words wrong, that they will be criticized, and that they are stupid or simply unable to learn. Of course we know that they will get some words wrong, we will do our best to encourage and not criticize, and NO these children are not stupid, nor are they unable to learn.
In my experience, children need encouragement, confidence, and motivation to begin reading. Many children with challenges and special learning needs become frustrated and give up. So, what do we do?
- Listen to your child. Without being frustrated or angry yourself, ask your child 'WHY?' they do not like to read. This lets your child know that you are interested in their feelings, and that they have a voice. Reading should not be forced, but encouraged.
- Try to determine your child’s learning style. Many young readers struggle because the basics of reading have not been presented to them in a manner that speaks to them. A kinetic/tactile learner will most likely only become frustrated if they are expected to just sit and read. Actually, the kinetic/tactile learner needs to ‘touch’ to see or hear the information. Follow this link, and take the quiz to determine your child’s learning preference. Learn Styles
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